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11 Mar


Guys My Age Wouldn’t Date Me, therefore I Became a ‘Cougar’

11 March, 2021 | By |

Guys My Age Wouldn’t Date Me, therefore I Became a ‘Cougar’

As soon as the 27-year-old guy that is french recently matched with on Tinder states he would like to prepare me personally supper at their household for the very first date, I’m not absolutely all that astonished. The French tend to become more intimate than People in america, even if it is pretty much intercourse. But six hours before our date, he blows up food questions to my phone.

“You consume goat cheese, sweet Melanie?”

What about salmon? Crepes for dessert? This or that for appetizers? What sort of wine?

“I’m sure I’ll love anything you prepare, don’t worry,” I say, partly moved, partly frustrated.

“But it is the very first time we see you. I would like every thing become perfect!” he texts right back.

I’m certain it will be, We guarantee him. I’m a 41-year-old girl utilizing the sexual interest of the teenage child and we’d already established as they call it here in France that we’re both just looking for a “sex friend. All of this work on their component is good but completely unneeded.

When I reach their place, damn does it smell amazing. The dining table can be so heavy with platters it appears directly away from a feast that is medieval. And many more food is cooking within the oven! “I made this sauce only for you,” he claims, supporting a platter of breads, spreads, and fancy French cheeses. This sauce—which that is special he notifies me personally, is named “Melanie’s Special Sauce”—makes my knees buckle.

Over appetizers, he waxes poetic as to what a strong US girl we am—we rise hills, travel the planet alone, I’m fearless. He launches into a monologue about how precisely impressed he’s with all I’ve done with my entire life to date and exactly how he hopes I’ll find him even half as interesting. Read More

17 Feb


The Dating Decline: Why Nobody Understands Just Just What The Hell They’re Doing Anymore

17 February, 2021 | By |

The Dating Decline: Why Nobody Understands Just Just What The Hell They’re Doing Anymore

Irrespective, read my post once again, together with the other links I posted, and let me know what precisely about it is misogynistic. (FTR, it will get without stating that critique of females, in and of itself, just isn’t synonymous with misogyny).

When I said above: I’ve had an abundance of good times during the last two decades with an array of otherwise normal women whom are decent people, then from all walks of life– bartenders and factory line workers, all the way up to ladies with masters levels and medical practioners (whom, FTR, made far more cash than I do, also it had been never an issue in my own eyes), and all sorts of of varying real proportions/attractiveness– quick, high, some somewhat obese, some rail-thin, some flat chested without any sides, some super curvy, some with model-quality facial features, some not really much, etc. )… nevertheless, each of them finished up being bad relationship product for the reasons we in the list above (usually the housepet or overgrown youngster categories– they expected their standard presence within my life or half-assed efforts that I experienced to “command”/ask/request/beg of those become all that is required– essentially they just desired to do sufficient to placate me personally into residing in the connection, my real delight be damned– while expecting most of the value which was usually expected of men– plus more– from me personally).

Demonstrably i need to never be all that “misogynistic” if I’ve put sufficient effort into my previous relationships with me, marry me, have kids with me, and they even did the large majority of initiating sexually (regardless of whether I rejected them or not), etc that they progressed to the point on more than one occasion they wanted to spend their life. Unfortuitously, like the majority of other “modern” ladies, they certainly were either incapable because of incompetence, or simply just declined to exhibit shared respect through real proactive work, and so I broke down my dedication to them (from time to time after several years of persistence as a husband, and gain all of what that entails (provision of all facets of security– emotional, physical, and financial; please them as a lover; make them feel special and appreciated, etc. ), but they didn’t want to have to work even to a minimal extent at being a wife, returning those same sentiments in a feminine way as a matter of mutual respect in return (at times even fighting tooth-and-nail to justify why they shouldn’t have to) with them)… in short, they wanted me to give them kids, and to acquire me. Read More


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